Why Attempting to Rebuild Your Marriage After an Affair is a Colossal Show of Courage

You won’t see it coming, the affair. It’ll blindside you, bring you to your knees, and leave you feeling like you’ll never recover from it. Getting up and moving forward, in whichever direction you choose, will be one of the hardest things you ever attempt to do. So incredibly hard, you’ll think it impossible. At … More Why Attempting to Rebuild Your Marriage After an Affair is a Colossal Show of Courage

The Lie I Tell My Doctor…

My annual well-woman exam is coming up, and I’m wondering if I’ll tell my doctor the truth this year. Each year there seems to be something I find I am not willing to offer up on the intake forms, some truth that’s too hard to tell. Once I’m in the exam room and face to … More The Lie I Tell My Doctor…

Our Stories Are(n’t) For Everyone

For as long as I can remember, grey has been my favorite color. I don’t think it’s an aesthetic-only preference. I’ve rarely been able to see the world and its complexities in black and white. My viewfinder is constantly set to shades of grey and at times that can be maddening. I’m a fence sitter, … More Our Stories Are(n’t) For Everyone