Valentine’s Day is for lovers. I guess. I don’t really know. My husband and I opted out of the manufactured holiday so long ago I can’t really speak to its virtues. When we were first dating we should have been all up in each other’s Valentines, because, you know, we were deep in the love. … More We just can’t even with Valentine’s Day. Instead, we pour some sugar on each other this everyday way.
February is about to hit us like a Mack truck, loves. I want to help us all get through by equipping us with the biggest weapon of mass compassion there is—LOVE. Need some help, a little nudge to reach in and pull some big, impactful love out of your quiver? I thought you might. So … More Daily tasks and tips to strengthen your marriage and love bigger, even through the hard days—a 28-day relationship building challenge.
Are you doing that thing again? Where you focus solely on the daunting distance you’ve left to travel. The granite-heavy workload you’ve still to muster. The labor-intensive recovery yet unfinished. Thus you forget to honor and celebrate just how far you’ve already come? The obstacles you’ve already surmounted?
I’m asked one question about surviving a spouse’s infidelity more than all the others combined: “How do you stop obsessing about HER?”
When I saw this photo of myself, my immediate inclination was to delete it and then go about my life pretending I’d never seen it. … More Does this jet ski make my butt look big? And other dumb things I’ve focused on.